Communication

Conflict Resolution

As a society we seem generally disinterested in learning about healthy relationships. We are seldom explicitly taught about how to properly relate to each other and most of the models that we are given are simply bad. All of this seems rather unfortunate when you consider that so much of what you are today has been forged through your relationships with others.

When it comes to learning about loving relationships the situation is even worse. Left to our own devices, we either struggle within an existing relationship or move from one to another continually trying to figure out what we need to do to make them work. Mainly we repeat our mistakes with very limited understanding of what is going wrong and how to correct it.

For good or for bad, relationships are powerful vehicles for determining how we feel about ourselves and others. They can lift us up, and they can crush us. As a result, we need to pay far more attention in properly learning about what it is that makes relationships healthy, and what makes them falter. Couples who are interested will find this to be one of the most important decisions they have ever made.

For couples counseling please contact me directly at 604-488-9637 or email me at gordon10@telus.net